Campaign Story

Hi Friends and Family,

Opening up like this is not something we do often—we’re private people, and this decision took a lot of courage. But when it comes to building our family, we’re learning that vulnerability is sometimes the strongest thing you can choose.

Only a few of our loved ones know that we are beginning our journey with IVF. It’s a deeply emotional process, and we’re humbly asking for your support—whether emotional, financial, a share on social media, or simply through kind words and prayers—as we pursue our dream of becoming mothers.

Sadly, in the world we live in, fertility costs are not covered by insurance beyond diagnostic testing. Everything else—from hormone medications and egg retrieval to sperm donation, embryo testing (PGT), and implantation—is an out-of-pocket expense. That brings our current cost to $20,870, a number that’s been difficult to face after receiving multiple loan denials.

To add to the urgency, biology doesn’t pause for anyone. Jennifer, my beautiful wife, is 34, and I’m 31. I will be the one to carry, and it’s our dream for me to carry Jennifer’s embryo. It’s a moment we’ve longed for—a representation of both of us, brought to life.

We met in 2012, and by 2013 we were already dreaming about the children we’d have one day—we even had baby names picked out. That’s how sure we’ve always been about building a life together centered around love, laughter, and family.

Jennifer has always loved children—she’s the cousin who babysat, the friend who swooped in to soothe a crying newborn, the one with infinite patience and warmth. I’ve spent the last eight years working with children on the autism spectrum, and every single one has left a mark on my heart. We both adore children and can’t wait to welcome one into our world.

This journey is filled with hope, anxiety, and resilience. If you’ve read this far, thank you—your support means everything. We’re so grateful for this community, and every step forward feels lighter when we know we’re not walking it alone.

Please don’t feel any pressure to donate—your support in any form means the world to us. Even simply sharing our story helps more than you know. Jennifer and I continue to work hard to cover as much as we can ourselves, and every bit of help—big or small—brings us closer to growing our family. We’re sending love and gratitude your way.

With love and gratitude, Kassandra & Jennifer